tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1434773906503267409.post5282198289068257411..comments2023-08-02T08:40:09.203-07:00Comments on Not A Stepford Wife's Blog: Walking The EdgeAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03672420897748374258noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1434773906503267409.post-53207831645848125542008-07-29T16:34:00.000-07:002008-07-29T16:34:00.000-07:00I just saw this...I'm sorry.You don't forgive for ...I just saw this...I'm sorry.<BR/><BR/>You don't forgive for her sake, but for yours. I understand all too well what it means to hold on to that hate and that hurt. It's comforting. But what lies on the other side is even more so.<BR/><BR/>You never forget. You just say, "Look God, I can't do this. I need you to help me do this. Help me to heal this hurt."<BR/><BR/>Just because you forgive doesn't mean you go back into the lion's den. That'd be stupid...especially if this is a toxic relationship.<BR/><BR/>It's hard. I know. Been there, done that. But you can do this with God's help.<BR/><BR/>Oh, and I'm sure you know this...but you can't hurt God's feelings. I think He's stronger than that..so lay it all out for Him. He can take it. <BR/><BR/>Honest.Iva https://www.blogger.com/profile/04310995664697030976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1434773906503267409.post-524328667095778582008-07-23T03:09:00.000-07:002008-07-23T03:09:00.000-07:00Hurt? Where did you think that anger was coming f...Hurt? Where did you think that anger was coming from? You've been hurting all along. It isn't really new. Let her go. She is ill and you know that. If she were well she could never have behaved toward you the way that she has. She can never be the person you desperately want her to be. J is right in asking you to try to forgive. For your sake, allow yourself to heal and move beyond all of this. She is too far away to just drop in on you. Caller ID can be a blessing when you have days when you just can't do it. Be prepared for the day when E realizes who she is too and comes looking for you for answers. I think it will take a bunch of maturity first for that to happen. Yes, it is scary to move emotionally to an unfamiliar place. You will be a much happier person at the end of it all if you allow yourself to go through the process. Big hug girl. P.S. How is the shoulder?<BR/><BR/>Sam:-)smnthpthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04203658280661441713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1434773906503267409.post-74731930714282943972008-07-22T07:56:00.000-07:002008-07-22T07:56:00.000-07:00Oh sweet girl, I knew you didn't agree, but I knew...Oh sweet girl, I knew you didn't agree, but I knew in my heart you would pray. I have sooooooooo much I want to say but I have to go to an appointment. I will call you when I get back. I am proud of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1434773906503267409.post-2977657805923068732008-07-22T04:40:00.000-07:002008-07-22T04:40:00.000-07:00Imp,I'll be praying for you as well if that is ok ...Imp,<BR/>I'll be praying for you as well if that is ok with you. I am sorry you are struggling but I am so glad you are listening to the pull of God in your life.<BR/><BR/>Tammy aka TrustingGodAlways from BellaTammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11108335858006804616noreply@blogger.com